The fact is that friends always expect sincerity, honesty, that have the courage to help us lead the way of life, from there the importance of the affinity and for friends to see in us what we are unable to see in ourselves, however, this does not always turn out to be so, because we have the least capacity for transparency of the friends closest to us.
- He Enjoys With You
If you are successful, have a wonderful marriage (you are happily in love) and you can afford to buy everything you need, you can count on many fits of jealousy. Unpleasant comments and quotes will appear for sure, especially from people you know. Only a real friend will be happy about your success and will be truly interested in the details of your successes. Real friends always keep their fingers crossed for you and are ready to help you if you do not count on anything in return.
- It Does Not Compete With You
Friendship is an emotional bond, not a popularity contest. When “friends” see your successes, as a great opportunity to celebrate and be with you in the center of interest, there are no real friends here. A real friend will be with you in every situation. It is known that life brings with it different experiences not only of winning and laurels but also those worse moments in which a real friend can prove his best.
- Honest
Do not confuse honesty with brutality, please. I’m trying to point out that a true friend should always be honest with you and say what he really thinks and not express his own judgment about your behavior or manner. Honesty, to which we can count on a friend is also criticism, but supported by appropriate arguments and said in a proper way.
- False Friends Do Not Have Time
Time is a deficit today. It is difficult to find a person who has an unlimited number of free moments. We drive, we do a lot of things, we try to do what is required of us. False friends in their busy schedules, however, do not find time to write back to the text or to call and ask how you feel, let alone to meet. They give you to understand that “they are making you a grace, devoting your time” in the thought “maybe one day will succeed”, “next time”.
- They Only Talk About Themselves
Most meetings with fake friends concentrate on discussing their personal dramas, they say a lot about themselves, they require maximum attention. However, they are not ready to give the other person the same interest they require.
- False Friends Leave You When They Have Other Friends Next To You
A fake friend will introduce you to a meeting where you do not know anyone. It will not help you find yourself in a new environment. He will not notice your embarrassment when you find yourself in a group of lively discussions. He will quickly give up your company and give himself to a conversation somewhere else. For him, it’s not important what you feel like to help you, only he counts.
- False Friends Encourage You To Make Bad Decisions
False friends will not tell you the truth; they will not help you look at the situation from the right perspective. They will invite your anger, let you burn valuable bridges; strengthen you in bad decisions because they are deep in their hearts to destroy and not to build.
